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594 06 Oct 2023

If you talk about this It is a very delicate matter. The issue has many dimensions. You should not call anyone or blame anything in any way. For one thing, this morning I was listening to an interview with Ticha Na Nakhon, an elderly NGO who still works with rights . with youth problems tirelessly It has been interestingly analyzed. About the crime factory from the case of the shooting at a children's center At Nong Bua Lamphu which is a return to listening Let's review it again after the case of a youth taking a gun and shooting. In Siam Paragon department store In the heart of Bangkok, the capital

Yesterday I just spoke with a neighbor about the behavior of children entering adolescence. who are showing signs of being mischievous, skipping school, racing cars, and fighting with each other, which the number of children like this is increasing every day It has become a silent danger beside us almost everywhere. Basically, for me, don't blame anyone or anything, even children. Because of this problem There are many factors. One part is families, families of the poor, whether they are poor in the city or poor in the countryside, are similar because they have little time to pay attention to, train, and warn their own children and grandchildren. One part loves them to the point of being lost, dizzy, or seeing only the behavior in the home that their children and grandchildren have. Expressing a refusal to follow and monitor. In another way, some families have neighbors and people who are very concerned come to tell them, come to inform them, warn them, and make them angry again. Finding that my own children are not good, this is like my parents bullying me.

The children and grandchildren of those who are neither poor nor rich are spoiled parents who raise their children with money until they are spoiled, spoiled and not interested in honoring others. Your children and grandchildren are good people.

Another factor is the trend of youth society. Teenagers are an age where they want to express themselves in many ways. They want to be adults, they want to be brave, they want to show their love to their friends, they love their lover, they want to experiment, etc., which can contribute to aggressive behavior, including communication tools, telephones, games they play, and various groups of friends and fans that they hang out with. related

And the last factor is sick children, sick mental state. But no one saw, cared or received proper care. Don't forget that today's world People give a lot of time to work. Because life is lived by working, children grow up with other people, other things than love and family, causing their mental and emotional states to not be molded and trained, which is everything. Children's first place What you need to learn is your parents or family.

Nowadays, parents have very little time. It's even more clearly seen in the rural areas. Rubber tapping at night During the day, they work for hire or go from farm to field. Parents and children only see each other for a short while. Going to school is like some sort of cage, that is, school now. Use the method of compressing activities, studying, and activities so that children do not have free time to become mischievous and wander. But the truth is, children are human beings and need space and time for fun. To imagine For love with friends But it was the opposite. The children looked tired and fed up with going to school. Management When there is little time or there are a lot of people, they use order, power, rules, and sound or sight, gestures, and the rod to represent "power" as a tool to control people.


I'm lonely at home. Going to school is boring. When you're alone, you're lonely, you're lost, you're stuck with games, friends, and sex. You create a world for yourself in your imagination. And quite a few people have been sick since childhood or at home. What's worrisome is that they look normal but are sick. These people Live a normal life, go to school, go to work, go out and live in society normally.

I have worked with youth, students, teenagers, and even young adults. I have been doing this for many years, many generations. I have found that the most important problem is that children do not have space to interact, have fun, and be themselves. own Showed off his talents. Released the loneliness within Going to school is stressful. It is graded learning, measuring talented people, praising talented people, but our children with ordinary brains only get passing scores and have no other abilities. Not having a beautiful, handsome, outstanding face, so living life as if you don't have a body, have no space, suppressed to the point of being crazy about people and the world around you.

Yesterday, I listened to interviews with professors, academics, psychologists, and police, teachers, and others all suggesting increased punishment. Let's close the internet shop and let the parents turn around and like their children more.

But no one talks about it. Activities for children and youth In the field or various areas In each position, life, field or ground, that are suitable for each type, gender, age, children should not be born to encounter But the loneliness at home and studying at school, I do activities that the kids like very much, I let them do what they like. Let him challenge himself. In taking on various responsibilities, when he can be himself He will feel fun. and trust close to us

We shouldn't just stay Waiting to deal with the problems that appear It means solving problems at the end of the cause. Plus correcting mistakes as well. I want every agency, especially parents. You should support him to have a place in life, more than a house and school. Let him have a club and a group of friends. There are many different agencies that work with children. I think of NGOs.who works with children There are only a few organizations now. These people are talented, experienced, and work with children. They have the art of reaching the mind... I don't see that the government sector is interested in supporting us to understand children. I thought I'd take a small bite. Got it every day.